Havencare at Valerie Manor

    1360 Torringford St, Torrington, CT, 06790
    3.0 · 41 reviews
    • Assisted living
    • Memory care
    • Skilled nursing
    AnonymousLoved one of resident
    2.0

    Warm staff inconsistent dangerous care

    I'm torn. Admissions, CNAs, nurses, PT and social work were warm and competent - welcoming staff, live piano, warm varied meals, on-time meds and thorough paperwork made us feel at home. But chronic understaffing and poor management meant ignored call bells, missed feedings and bathroom help, hygiene neglect, falls, delayed care after COVID restrictions, missing valuables and even hospitalizations/death. In short: wonderful people and therapy in a pretty place, but inconsistent, sometimes dangerous care - be cautious.

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    Amenities

    Healthcare services

    • Activities of daily living assistance
    • Assistance with bathing
    • Assistance with dressing
    • Assistance with transfers
    • Medication management
    • Mental wellness program

    Healthcare staffing

    • 12-16 hour nursing
    • 24-hour call system
    • 24-hour supervision

    Meals and dining

    • Diabetes diet
    • Meal preparation and service
    • Restaurant-style dining
    • Special dietary restrictions

    Room

    • Air-conditioning
    • Cable
    • Fully furnished
    • Housekeeping and linen services
    • Kitchenettes
    • Private bathrooms
    • Telephone
    • Wifi

    Transportation

    • Community operated transportation
    • Transportation arrangement
    • Transportation arrangement (non-medical)

    Common areas

    • Beauty salon
    • Computer center
    • Dining room
    • Fitness room
    • Gaming room
    • Garden
    • Outdoor space
    • Small library
    • Wellness center

    Community services

    • Concierge services
    • Fitness programs
    • Move-in coordination

    Activities

    • Community-sponsored activities
    • Planned day trips
    • Resident-run activities
    • Scheduled daily activities

    2.98 · 41 reviews

    Overall rating

    1. 5
    2. 4
    3. 3
    4. 2
    5. 1
    • Care

      2.9
    • Staff

      3.2
    • Meals

      1.6
    • Amenities

      2.0
    • Value

      2.5

    Pros

    • Welcoming admissions staff and good first impression
    • Supportive, caring CNAs and many praised nurses
    • Effective physical therapy (when provided)
    • Helpful social work communication
    • Friendly reception and housekeeping staff
    • Some residents report an exceptionally clean environment
    • Pleasant common areas and attractive/pretty grounds
    • Live piano/music and social atmosphere in front area
    • Good meal variety and meals served warm (reported by some)
    • Medicare coverage accepted
    • Prompt medication administration and some on-time care
    • Thorough intake/paperwork and COVID checks reported
    • Compassionate, loving, and family-like interactions noted by multiple reviewers
    • Safe, loving environment for some post-stroke or rehab patients
    • Smoke-free facility

    Cons

    • Chronic understaffing reported frequently
    • Unanswered call bells and slow nurse response times
    • Delays or refusal of bathroom assistance leading to incontinence
    • Reports of ignored or delayed pain medication requests
    • Allegations of dignity and respect being violated
    • Staff distracted by phones during work breaks
    • Room cleanliness issues and inconsistent housekeeping
    • Meals delivered late or not delivered to some residents
    • Management unresponsive; unanswered calls and poor communication
    • Allegations of theft / missing valuables
    • Serious hygiene neglect (patients left in feces, poor hand hygiene)
    • Multiple reports of falls and patients found on the floor
    • Therapy services stopped prematurely for some patients
    • Some reviewers report worse condition after rehab
    • Claims of residents being drugged or over-sedated
    • COVID outbreak and reports staff were unprepared
    • Agency/temporary staff used and concerns about DNS blacklist
    • Director of Nursing/management described as rude or unprofessional
    • Strong odors reported (urine, general uncleanliness)
    • Food quality inconsistent; reports of disgusting or unserved food
    • Clothing and personal items mix-ups and hygiene oversights
    • Allegations of neglect leading to hospitalization or death (reported by reviewers)
    • Loud TVs and sleep disturbances for some residents
    • Facility appears rundown to some reviewers
    • Complaints ignored despite family reports

    Summary review

    The reviews for Havencare at Valerie Manor are sharply divided, producing a highly mixed overall picture. A notable portion of reviewers praise the caregiving staff — particularly CNAs, some nurses, and the admissions team — for being welcoming, compassionate, and supportive. Multiple families describe a warm first impression, helpful tours, and staff members who put them at ease during transitions. Several reviews highlight excellent physical therapy, attentive social work communication, pleasant common areas (including live piano music), and some consistently positive dining experiences with meal variety and warm food. Some families explicitly describe the facility as clean, smoke-free, and efficient, and several residents report a safe, loving environment where their loved ones formed friendships and received good rehabilitative care.

    However, those positive experiences coexist with many serious negative reports. The dominant concern across numerous reviews is chronic understaffing, which reviewers connect to long call-bell response times, delayed or absent bathroom assistance, missed or late medications, and poor hands-on care. Multiple reviewers describe severe hygiene neglect — residents left soiled for long periods, clothing and personal items mixed up, food unserved, and even incidents where patients were found on the floor. There are multiple allegations of theft (missing valuables) and strong accusations that some residents were over-sedated. A few reviewers assert the neglect resulted in hospital admission or death; these are reported as reviewers’ claims and represent the most serious and recurrent worries about safety and quality.

    Care quality appears inconsistent and polarized. Many individual caregivers are repeatedly praised as compassionate and effective, yet systemic problems (staffing shortages, agency personnel, and management issues) appear to undermine consistent delivery of care. Reports indicate that therapy and rehabilitation can be excellent when regularly delivered, but some families said therapy stopped prematurely or that a loved one returned in worse condition after rehab. Several reviewers praised on-time medication administration and clinical checks (for example, COVID screening and sugar monitoring), while others report ignored medication and pain needs.

    Facility and housekeeping impressions are mixed. Some reviews call the facility exceptionally clean with friendly housekeeping, while others describe rooms that are not cleaned, pervasive odors (urine, general filth), and a rundown appearance. Dining similarly receives mixed feedback: several reviewers enjoyed meals, variety, and warm food, but others described gross food, meals not delivered, or residents going hungry for hours. The front common areas (piano, open spaces) and the grounds receive consistent positive mentions, suggesting public spaces may be better maintained than some resident rooms.

    Management and communication are recurring trouble spots. Multiple reviewers say administrators and directors are unresponsive to calls and complaints; the Director of Nursing and other managers are described as rude or unprofessional in several accounts. Some reviewers felt the administration “talks a good talk” but fails to follow through, and family complaints were reported ignored. Use of agency staff, reports of a DNS blacklist, and an outbreak of COVID with claims of unprepared staff amplify concerns about administrative oversight and infection control.

    Overall pattern and takeaways: the reviews portray a facility that can deliver excellent, compassionate care in many individual cases but is hampered by systemic issues that produce dangerous variability. The most frequent and consequential themes are understaffing, inconsistent cleanliness and hygiene, late or missing meals/medications, poor communication from management, and safety incidents (falls, alleged thefts, and serious neglect). Prospective residents and families should weigh the positive reports about individual caregivers, therapy, and pleasant common areas against repeated accounts of neglect and managerial failures. If considering Valerie Manor, strongly consider in-person tours focused on current staffing levels, staffing ratios on the floor where a loved one would live, direct observation of care routines (call-bell response, mealtime delivery), documentation of how the facility handles complaints, and asking for references from recent families. Regular family involvement and clear escalation channels may be essential for ensuring consistent care given the variability described in these reviews.

    Location

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    About Havencare at Valerie Manor

    Havencare at Valerie Manor sits at 1360 Torringford Street in Torrington, Connecticut, with two buildings set on over 14 acres, one finished in 1984 with two stories and about 74,000 square feet, the other built in 1987 with three stories and around 76,000 square feet, and you'll find it managed by Athena Health Care Systems, with daily oversight from staff like the Director of Nursing Services, Memory Care Program Coordinator, and others, all offering a range of nursing and care services. The facility has 151 certified beds and usually about 141 residents each day, with choices for private or semi-private rooms, a large dining hall, comfy lounges, and amenities like a wellness center, computer center, fitness and gaming rooms, and outdoor garden space. The place provides long-term care and short-term rehabilitation, skilled nursing, memory care, assisted living, respite, adult day services, independent living, and even hospice, plus you get programs for physical, occupational, and speech therapy, orthopedic recovery, advanced wound care, and chronic illness management under the care of on-site therapy teams. Residents can get help with bathing, dressing, transfers, medication, meals, and daily activities, with 24-hour support, a call system, and all-around supervision, and there's a mental wellness program, regular housekeeping, linen service, private bathrooms or kitchenettes, cable, WiFi, and air-conditioning. The Housekeeping and Laundry Director oversees the cleaning and laundry, while other departments help with financial work, maintenance, and therapeutic recreation, so everything runs smoothly. People can join organized activities, planned day trips, resident-run social and recreational events, and there's community-sponsored transportation for non-medical trips. The team also focuses on providing a safe, supportive, and respectful atmosphere, encouraging everyone to feel a part of the community, and it's got a reputation as a trusted provider for senior care services even though its most recent inspection reported 32 deficiencies, including issues with resident rights, abuse prevention, and respiratory care. The nurse turnover rate stands at 32.4% which is better than the Connecticut state average, but the nurse hours per resident per day falls short of the state average. Havencare at Valerie Manor offers a continuum of care, so residents can smoothly move between different levels of help as they need it and the place tries to meet each person's unique needs with individualized care plans and a focus on dignity and quality of life.

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